Caught Off Guard

Yesterday while Liam was with his occupational therapist I was caught off guard when the pediatric physiatrist came to speak with me about him.  I've been meaning to make an appointment with her, but have been waiting 'til all the tests were done.  She oversees the treatment plans and provides her expertise to the therapists working with Liam.  She's certified in physical medicine and rehabilitation, pediatric medicine, pediatric rehabilitation, and neurodevelopmental pediatrics.  She knows her stuff and I was looking forward to having an appointment with her. 

I just wasn't prepared for our appointment and I was a little shocked when she sought me out - but I guess that's how she keeps on top of things. (This place is amazing at keeping on top of things.)

Anyway, she was the first to not be so optimistic about his recovery, especially with his language (aphasia).  He's apparently past the "rapid recovery period" of six weeks post stroke and based on his progress so far this will definitely last past Christmas (this information is important to know for a future post regarding the vaccine).  I had a feeling we'd be in this for the very long haul, I just wasn't ready for a doctor to confirm my thoughts.

She also stressed the importance of forcing him to use his right hand and the right side of his body.  We were really great with this, but after awhile he would just become so frustrated I felt guilty - he has so much frustration with his speech I should at least let him use whatever arm/hand he wants.  Last night we put his immobilizer on him while he was eating dessert - so he had to use his right hand to eat his ice cream bar.  She sighted studies that have shown that forcing stroke patients to use their affected side increased brain connections (shown via functional MRIs) and therefore it will also help with his speech/language.

Liam - with the immobilizer on his left arm, forcing him to eat his pizza with his right (weeks ago).  After about five minutes he asked for me to take it off. 

It was great to meet with her and I'm so thankful for everything that has been done for us and Liam via this rehabilitation hospital.  I would have loved to have known I was going to see her so that I could have prepared myself with questions and with the possibility of not-so-great news.